MAD exhibition inspires healing

The South African Faith and Family Institute (SAFFI) brought its Men Affirming Dignity (MAD) mobile exhibition to the Cape Town Central Library on Tuesday, 25 November, where about 20 people gathered for an afternoon of storytelling, reflection, and community dialogue.

SAFFI was founded in 2008 by social worker, Dr Elizabeth Hoorn Petersen, who previously managed a shelter for abused women and children. 

Having spent decades working with families affected by violence, she recognised the need for an organisation that could address how faith, culture, and harmful beliefs contribute to gender-based violence (GBV).

Since then, SAFFI has become known for its training programmes that support religious leaders, faith communities, and service providers in responding to domestic violence, promoting safer options for women, and encouraging accountability and healing for men who use harm.

The MAD initiative was inspired by her late father, Daniel Hoorn, whose gentle and respectful approach to family life shaped her belief that many African men and so-called “coloured” men live lives that contradict negative stereotypes. 

The exhibition highlights the humanity and dignity of men whose stories are often overshadowed by the dominant narrative that portrays them as violent or irresponsible. 

She said the project aims to “talk back” to these assumptions and uplift the experiences of men whose contributions to family and community life are rarely acknowledged.

The mobile exhibition features the stories of 14 men from the Cape Flats, including Daniel Hoorn, Shawn George, Andre Daniels, Isaac February, Hagin Kortjie, Uncle Willy, Barry Isaacs, Fagrie Nasiep, Patrick Pickering, Earl Erasmus, Quentin Rapitse, and John Bean. 

Their stories reflect the resilience and compassion that they have shown despite the legacies of slavery, colonialism, apartheid, and ongoing social inequality.

Chief librarian of Central Library, Rosalind Hendricks, welcomed guests to the launch, with Mike Klink, chairperson of the Friends of Cape Town Central Library (FOCAL), serving as master of ceremonies. 

Dr Hoorn-Petersen told attendees that libraries remain vital places for learning, growth, and community connection, which is why SAFFI chose the venue.

During her address, she encouraged the audience to reflect on their purpose and the ways they contribute to society. 

She said that the exhibition is not about celebrating heroes but about recognising ordinary men who embody integrity.

“Our stories are part of history and culture. They should not be ignored,” she said.

One of the most personal reflections came from MAD’s lead co-ordinator, Ashwyn Du Plooy of Bonteheuwel, who shared how he reconciled with his father after years of silence.

His act prompted his grandfather to apologise to both men, creating what he described as a moment where “three generations healed together”. 

He said the exhibition encourages men to understand that vulnerability can be a source of strength.

Musician Edward Adams performed a song written by his friend Ashley Wenn, addressing the realities of gangsterism, drugs, and alcohol, as well as the importance of making choices that honour one’s purpose.

Featured participant of the exhibition, Earl Erasmus, reminded the audience of the value of listening to ordinary people’s stories, which he believes can shift perspectives and strengthen community bonds.

Senior librarian Sello Malepo said the exhibition inspired him to reconnect with his own father. At the same time, area manager Diarmaid Wessels closed the event with a poem and encouraged the crowd to pass the baton to future generations.

To learn more about SAFFI’s work or the MAD initiative, Contact 021 462 2277 or email info@saffi.org.za.